Friday, 30 May 2008

5 States, 6 cities and a road trip

As my trip was so last minute, I didn't manage to get a lot of sleep the night before I left between booking the tickets, the taxis and the hire car, calling my mom, dad and sister to let them know I was coming and throwing a few things in a suitcase, I only managed about 2 hours of sleep before I was back up and getting ready for the journey. Luckily I asked my mom to phone me before she went to bed (4am my time, 10pm her time) to make sure I was up Saturday . I say luckily - if she hadn't have called me I wouldn't have woken up til the taxi came - I somehow had managed to turn off both alarms I set to wake me up! This was the first trip I've ever paid for a taxi to take me all the way to the airport. I must admit it that the hassle free trek to the airport was nice, but I still hated forking out the money for it, but I guess when I need to be at the airport before 6am I didn't have a lot of choice.
The journey over was quite uneventful in itself. True to form I was about 15 minutes late to the airport which meant I was pulled out of the queue at the ticket counter so I could check in. There was a guy who was argumentative with the sales lady. "Why do I have to wait 30 minutes longer because people get here late." I do see his point, but on the other hand, if people didn't get to the airport 4 hours before they needed to, the queue wouldn't be so long and I wouldn't have had to jump the queue. Also, whether he wait 30 more minute waiting to check in or waiting for his plane to board - he would have still be waiting somewhere in the airport. Nevermind. I made it to Dallas (Texas) via a lay over in Chicago. It took me 2 and a half hours to get my luggage and rent a car. How ridiculous is that?! It took less time to go through immigrations and customs and get my luggage in Chicago!!!
It was just after 7pm by the time I made it to CDR. I grew up going to CDR every summer and it holds a very special place in my heart. There was a 50 year anniversary celebration there and not long after I strolled up the guy at the microphone welcomed me (he was stunned I'd come all the way from England for it). That was neat for me, but at the same time odd to be singled out because there were a fair few that had traveled quite a distance to attend. I enjoyed getting to catch up with the grown up version of my friends and catching up with their lives now. The bad part was that I was sick. Properly sick. Not nice at all. I think it was a combination of the serious heat and lack of sleep, whatever it was, it was not pleasant. I ended up sleeping the night in the Mess Hall (the canteen area) on a couch in the back as there were toilets near by. I think I ended up quite nice off as it;s one of the only air conditioned buildings on the property. Unfortunately I didn't get to take many pictures as (1) I wasn't well and (2) the only camera I had was the one on my phone.

After church on Sunday morning at camp I drove the 7 hours up to Cheryl and Scott's. This was a hard drive as I was still very unwell and I was still suffering from jet lag. There were several stops along the way and pit stops on the side of the road, but I made it. Everyone (Cheryl, Scott, Madi, Mom and Dad and some of Scott's family) was at Scott's parents house having a BBQ. It was good to visit with them, the last time I saw Scott's side of the family was at Cheryl and Scott's wedding 9 years ago. Scott's nieces had fun listening to my accent and talking about living in England. They're cute girls. I see why Cheryl speaks so highly of them.

Madi didn't get a moment of piece. As soon as you had her, someone else wanted her off you.
Cheryl and Madi

Me and Madi just after I arrived. Look at those cute cheeks!

Mom feeding Madi

Dad with Madi

So you get the picture, Madi was passed around :-)
This is Mike (Scott's brother), Cheryl with Madi and me

In the front sitting down is Scott and Ceryl's standing next to him. In the back are Mike's friends, no clue on names ... I think there's a Jason in there somewhere?

Scott, being the good son he is, took his Mom some BBQ for dinner. He got the old truck out that he and family restored. Dad got to tag along for the ride.

Then he took Mom for a spin

Monday morning the Gilberts were all at Cheryl and Scott's house. Cheryl and Scott had their hands full - all 4 Gilberts under one roof is always an adventure!

I got to feed Madi some breakfast. Notice I'm opening my mouth too (check out the above picture of Mom feeding Madi ... no denying I'm her daughter!) - why do we grown ups do this :-)


William (dog on the left) often doesn't eat if my parents leave him behind and go on a trip, so Mom decided to take hime to Arkansas with her. He still didn't eat much, so Mom thought she'd hand feed him .. that wasn't fast enough for this hungry boy. He chowed ddown on 2 lots of food.

Meanwhile Dad and Scott were upstairs watching Transformers in Scott's "play room". It's not a play room, it's a transformer room. Look closely at the walls

Let me help point them out. I guess there's no where better to watch a movie about transformers than in a transformer room. Scott even has transformers on display in a show box inset into the floor!

Mom tends to be a bit camera happy (notice all the picture's I've posted - and it's not all of them!) Cheryl and Scott get tired of it and try to mess up the pictures. Here Cheryl is pointing at her lovely wall as to avoid the photo. "Don't worry Cheryl, I'll still take the photo" says Mom :-)
Mom and Dad had to get on the road so they could get home and ready for work on Tuesday. I ended up staying at my sister's house so I could spend more time with them and Madi. But we got a family photo before they left.

Can't you see how much she loves me - it's written all over her face :-)

Take 2


Mom showing Madi some more love before she heads off

Mom, the camera girl, was gone, but I filled her shoes pretty good.
Madi "working" with her Daddy editing photos for her blog

Her daddy was finding ways to amuse her. Post it note's are great.

"There's something on my head"

"Hey, where'd that go"

"These make good eatin"

"num num!"

"What mischief can I make on the floor?"

"See how strong I am"

"Look Mom, one hand"


"One adult down, who's next. They just don't make grown ups like they use to!"

"I guess I'll have to amuse myself now. Who's that pretty baby in the mirror?"

"Cameras - I want to take a photo, give me!"
Madi was "acting up" while I was feeding her dinner which was unusual for her and her parents weren't impressed. I think she wasn't feeling so hot either as shortly after we abandoned feeding her she launched all her dinner out of her stomach in style. Luckily this happened on the kitchen tile and was easy enough to clean up.

Tuesday I drove down to Mom's flat in Tyler (another 7 hour drive), at least this time I wasn't sick! I stopped in Paris on my way through and had lunch with my "Yaya" at TaMolly's (my all time favourite TexMex restaurant). Sherry has been fun adopted grandparent to have in my life since I was a late teenager. It was good to catch up with her, but the time was too short!

I got stopped waiting for a train to pass on the way to Mom's from Paris. I thought it was picture worthy as I can't remember ever getting stopped by trains growing up - there's so few trains on the go in the States

I made it to Tyler around 8 (this is the front to the apartment complex she's in)

Mom was already in her pjs ready for bed! Old timer :-)
"Karen, why do you have that camera, put it away"

"Fine, I'll hide from you"

"Hey"


Wednesday mom went to wok and I worked on our school timetable from the flat. I did take a break to go for a quick swim ... timetabling by the pool, now that's how to timetable!
We went to church just after Mom got back from work. I was surprised to see a few familiar faces from the CDR reunion, but it was good to know Mom's in good hands down here in Tyler. After church we headed to The Olive Garden, one of my favourite Italian restaurants in the States. We were so full from dinner that we cam home and crawled into bed.



Mom cracks me up when she talks on her mobile phone. Having a mobile is a new thing for Mom, and she, well she holds the phone like this when she's speaking into the mouth piece. Bless her.
Mom had the day off on Thursday (as she has to work on Saturday). Mom pottered about in the kitchen making some chocolate covered pretzels as a thank you for a neighbour downstairs and some finger foods for a birthday celebration at work on Friday while we waited for the maintenance man from the apartments to come by. (Mom punch a hole through the tiles in the bathroom wall. No she's not that strong and she wasn't angry - the sheet rock behind the tile has serious water damage and it was "an accident waiting to happen" as they say.) I took the time to timetable some more.



Thursday evening we wondered down to the mall for a few hours were, of all things, I bought a dress. It was just so cute and it was 50% off - how could I pass it up! The last dress I wore was my wedding dress! The last skirt I wore was 5 years ago to a wedding. So watch out for the photos - you might never see them again!
We got back from the mall, via the grocery store, quite late and we were both pretty hungry. Mom had sow cooked a roast all day - it made the flat hot, but it sure was tasty!!! Mom had to finish a few things for Friday's work thing so we didn't get to bed till 11:30. This is really late for my mom.


And that brings us to today, Friday. Mom's back at work. I'm waiting around for the maintenance guy to come back and finish off while writing this blog, all procrastinating working on the timetable. Tonight Mom wants to take me to the Tyler Rose Gardens. My mother loves her nature and the beauty you find in it. The rose garden's not big on my "to see" list, but I get to spend time with my mother and I know it's something she likes (and doesn't have many people around to do "stuff" with), and I'm sure I'll enjoy it.

I always laugh at Mom and how long she spends getting ready. We're polar opposite - I get up last minute and tonrnado through the house. She gets up hours before she needs to and leisurely gets ready.

Such concentration is needed when doing your hair :-)


And that's it for now. Saturday after I send mom to work, I'll drive myself back to Dallas (my finial 3 hour drive ... I've done over a thousand miles this week!) to the airport. And I'm sad to leave. I am seriously considering stopping visiting the States. I'm always so sad to leave my family behind. I can't imagine living in the States, everything SO different to what I'm accustom to, and I can't imagine living with any of my family (we all argue too much), but I miss them so much when I leave them. [wipes tear from eye] sniff sniff. I guess I need to convince my family to immigrate to England. The British are always complaining about the bloody foreigners taking over the jobs ... why can't my family be part of those bloody foreigners :-)

Friday, 23 May 2008

I'm leaving...

on a jet plane, don't know when I'll be back again.
Actually I do know when I'll be back, next Saturday. I'm going to the States for a week - another flying visit. I post this before I've told my mother I'm definitely coming .. Mom, if I've not told you yet, I'm coming to Texas tomorrow. Nothing like my spontaneous nature - you've got to love all my last minute plans :-)
I'll be going to the CDR reunion Saturday night. Sunday morning I'm planning on driving up to Arkansas to see Cheryl, Scott and Madi (sister and her family) where my parents should be as well. I'll be passing through Paris on Sunday morning on the way to Arkansas, maybe I'll get to say hello as I drive through. Sunday night and Monday are being spent in Arkansas and then I'll be headed to Tyler to spend the rest of the week with Mom. Monday night / Tuesday afternoon (whenever I leave Arkansas hopefully I'll get to stop by Paris and have lunch or dinner so if you're around and available, give me a post and we can try to plan something.

Looking forward to seeing everyone. Not looking forward to flying. The more I fly, the more I hate flying.
...oh yeah.... It's currently 11:15pm, I leave my flat at 5am and I've not started packing :- Oh dear.

Wednesday, 21 May 2008

Where have you been Karen?

You might have noticed that my blogs have been few and far between lately. My days are too short and too busy at the moment. The brief synopsis is that this time of year is extremely busy for me at work. It's the time of year I'm doing the school's timetable / schedule for the next academic year. Take a look at my blog from this time last year - my whole life centres around the timetable for a good month or two. Last year I had a timescale of 2 and 1/2 months to get this done. This year I have barely a month. If I were to only work M-F 9-5 it would take a good 3 months to get the timetable done. I have a month to do it all. It's a nightmare!!!! That's problem number one.


On top of problem number one is problem number two: a colleague of mine (who had a very busy day to day job here) has left. Part of her job was given to me. This "part" of her job takes up 95% of my time. Another 10% of my time is sorting out questions / problems arising from her leaving - just cause no one knows what to do now. This woman did a lot of stuff!!!


To add to my woes, a good 20% of my time is used up sorting out problems and questions about the system I look after. This is part of my normal job and I expect it. Some problems and questions are easier than others, but the combination of them is very time consuming.



If you're not good at maths - that's over 100% of my time. Did you also notice I didn't mention any amount of time being spent on the timetable for next year that I have less than a month to complete? No? That's because I don't have time to work on it. Not only is it SO far behind schedule, but I have no time to work on it!!! I'm working 12 hour days at work and then taking work home. It's seriously ridiculous. I'm close to the end of my tether and feel myself reaching breaking point. I don't have enough stamina to keep this up much longer!


Needless to say, everything in my social life suffers. My blog is one of the many things that has been effected by my ridiculous work life. Anyone know what a good work / life balance is? I sure don't have one!

Tuesday, 20 May 2008

Surviving Mondays

Lindsay was telling me last week how Adam (her boyfriend) decided he should go out to celebrate surviving Mondays. I thought this was a brilliant idea, and let me tell you, after my 12 hours slogging my guts out at work yesterday - I needed to celebrate surviving Monday. Fortunately my good friend, Clare, was at hand to celebrate with me! Clare introduced me to a quaint Mexican restaurant near-ish her house.



You would have been disappointed if we hadn't tried on the sombreros for you!

Tuesday, 13 May 2008

Roof BBQs

A bit of a random to begin the post - outragouesness!!! It now costs me £1-10 per liter of fuel!!! £66 was my last tank of fuel - a whopping $120 approximately for the American readers. An don't be confused by the size of my petrol tank - were only talking around 13.5 gallons here!

Now then, lets see, this was a while back now..... I believe this is from 10th May. That week was our first proper sunny weather. It was great! I went to Xena's flat to say hello. She was on her way to her eldest daughter's house and invited me along. So I spent Saturday afternoon at Anna's (Xena's daughter) house with her 3 youngsters.


Xena on the decking enjoying the illusive English sun The kids got all three of us on their new trampoline. Here's Xena
And Anna

....shame there's no photo of me making a fool of myself on the trampoline. You'll have to use your imagination :-)

Saturday night Lindsay's sister and boyfriend were over and we had a BBQ out on the roof. Much in the style of Friends we can climb out our lounge window onto the roof outside. It's not so easy getting back inside though. Carla (Lindsay's sister) somehow got stuck while trying to get inside (I think she was paralysed by laughter).


I think there's a few more pictures from the night, but I don't know where, so this will have to do for now. Sorry I've been rubbish at updating my blog ... life's just busy and stressful at the moment. The blog has to take a backseat to my chaotic life.

Wednesday, 7 May 2008

Zombie-fied

When I get stressed I tend not to sleep. Not because I'm awake thinking / worrying about something. Just because I don't go to bed. A lot of times I don't realise that I'm not going to bed and getting enough sleep til days later when my body stops functioning. Well, it's now days later. My "not getting enough sleep" started Thursday; you remember Thursday's posts - not a good day. Last night as I watched the clock tick over past 1:30 am I thought to myself "Self, you have to get up in less than 5 hours - GO TO SLEEP!" I think I finally fell asleep just before 2. Ho hum. My problem is not finding a remedy to sleep. My problem is finding a remedy to get rid of stress* - any ideas? :-D

A forgotten post: As I went to post this, I realised there was a small post I did last week, but didn't put it online - ops! Click here to read the post.


*Another way stress is manifesting itself is a lack of hunger. I'm not of the opinion that dropping a couple pounds is a bad thing though - so this, I can deal with. What's not so great is that I also suffer with diabetes - my diabetes is usually fine and rarely ever causes me trouble. Not eating for extended periods of time does not do my blood sugars any good. And when my blood sugar is down and I need to eat to get my sugar levels up - well, it's like trying to eat something just after you've vomited - you just don't want to eat and it makes you feel sick to eat. Ho hum. I guess I better make sure I eat something.

Tuesday, 6 May 2008

Bank Holiday weekend

As you can tell the end of my week wasn't a great one. To put it mildly, I was a bit stressed. Friday after work all I really wanted to do was to have a huge TGIFridays cocktail and go to the cinema. A good friend, Clare, stepped in and accompanied me. I had a great evening! Just what I needed after my week!!

Clare and I at TGIFridays
Then onto the movie - got to love Patrick Dempsey!!! (Maid of Honor was the movie of choice. Man, I love chick flicks!)
Clare and I outside the cinema. Can you believe it costs £15 to see a movie in Leicester Square?!!
Saturday was a pj day. Pretty much the whole day. Saturday night I went to Ed's flat for dinner and good company. His ex-flat mate, Clem, was there too. I'd met Clem once before, but as it was her birthday party I didn't get to speak to her much. She's a pretty fab gal. I much enjoyed Saturday night!
Sunday was forgettable. I think I was in my pjs all day. I did upgrade my iphone to try and solve my camera issue*, but it didn't fix it. So back to the Apple company for that. Joy.
Monday was a bank holiday here so I had the day off work - yipee! The weather couldn't have been better. I went into town for a few groceries and ant powder (I had ants creeping into the kitchen) and then hung out on my roof the rest of the afternoon in the sun. Lindsay (my flatmate) got back from her weekend trip to the midlands and her boyfriend joined us as well. The three of us stayed on the roof for several hours passing the time playing card games. A very fun and relaxing night.

Today I'm back at work. Sigh. The weather's still lovely and warm. It's hard to be stuck inside working when the weather's so lovely!


*more on that later

Thursday, 1 May 2008

A Girlie Night In

Xena had a few girlies over to hers last night after work. She made us way too much good food. Food, Laughter and Fun. A great night.



Steph and Xena

Mary H. and Mary B.

Defeated

Defeated. That's what I've moved on to. Helpless.

Angry Karen Returns!

Grrr. Grrr. Grrr.
Very annoyed, frustrated, "put upon", taken advantage of, angry. That's how I feel at the moment.
Grrrrrr!