Why can't someone just tell you the right thing to do?!

What are you suppose to do when you have a conflict that you don't know how to resolve but you can't ask for help because you know that no-one will be able to help you objectively?

- Make a pro / con list for the options - done that, didn't really help
- Simplify the conflict - someone saying that and actually being able to do that - very different
- Sit by and do nothing - well in a way that's taking a stand for one side of the conflict, and then your choice to be able to decide how to handle it is stolen from you.

So what do you do? Buy some antacids for the ulcers you've caused yourself. That's all I can think of.

**sigh**